The Big ‘O’ In Search of the Ultimate Orgasm by Dr. Ava Cadell

As humans we are always in search of the ultimate orgasm whether it’s with our soul mate, a one night stand, a bottle of booze, or mind altering drugs.  It is our second basic instinct after self-preservation.  So why are we seeking that euphoric, mind-blowing, earth shattering, energy melting orgasm? We seek to lose that part of ourselves which connects to the everyday and mundane, and for a brief moment of eternity reach out and feel the all-embracing Karma, the essence of the universe, making, for that one brief moment, our tiny insignificant essence part of a much greater supreme whole.  Perhaps therefore, the “ultimate orgasm” is our shorthand for losing the pain and hassle of being human, and seeking to transcend the fleshly prison for one brief instant in which we can float ethereally like gods.

Choose Your Orgasm

There are many different kinds of orgasm that you can experience from stimulation of different parts of your body.  Each one will create different kinds of feelings ranging from quick, short, localized, deep, concentrated, to full body orgasms.  This is your opportunity to experiment with as many different kinds of orgasm as you can.  Remember that orgasm is good for your health so it’s doctors’ orders!

A UniGasm

This is an orgasm where stimulation is directed to one primary erogenous zone such as the penis, prostate, testicles, clitoris, G-spot, anus, or nipples. Nipple stimulation for men and women can produce an orgasm, though it’s not as common as some of the other erogenous zones.  For women, having their breasts caressed and nipples sucked releases Oxytocin, the chemical that makes them feel like they are in love.  Masters and Johnson discovered that one percent of women were able to achieve orgasm from breast stimulation alone.  This is an area that many men enjoy stimulating during foreplay, but rarely think of as having orgasmic potential.  To give memorable oral sex on her breasts and nipples you need to understand that the size of her breasts have nothing to do with the sensitivity.  Ask her if she gets turned on by having her breasts played with.  If so, then follow these directions.   Begin by caressing and licking both of her breasts, not just her nipples.  Alternate each one as you use the flat of your tongue in lapping motions all around her breasts covering every centimeter.  Follow your tongue with light fingertip caresses, leaving her nipples until last.  When both breasts are suitably wet from your tongue, cup your hand over one breast at a time so that the tip of her nipple rests in between your thumb and your index finger. Squeeze the fingers together so that you raise her nipple slightly, and then begin licking it with the tip of your tongue in circular motions.  After about a dozen licks or so, pucker your lips around the nipple and suck gently but firmly; let your head bob up and down simultaneously.  To enhance oral nipple sensation, put an ice cube in your mouth while lavishing her orally.  Don’t forget to give equal attention to both breasts and nipples.  When she is climaxing do not stop or change what you are doing.  Let her push you away when she is ready.

For male nipple stimulation, the directions are pretty much the same, except men are more interested in having immediate nipple contact with deeper vacuum sucking motions from the woman- not so much teasing around the nipple area.  Some men enjoy having their nipples nibbled on.  So ladies, it’s up to you to find out how much pain or pleasure your man wants on his nipples.  Some men have one nipple that is more sensitive than the other.  While you suck on one, you can pinch the other one and then ask him which one feels most erotic.  You could be the first one to introduce him to a UniGasm through his nipples.  Now that’s what I call creating a lasting mammary, (I mean memory)!

A BiGasm

Many people are experienced with various forms of dual stimulation—a penis and a tongue, a vagina and a tongue a finger and a tongue, and various other combinations.  Here are some ideal ways to create two points of stimulation at the same time.

This will be more intense than a UniGasm so it’s worth exploring.  It can be licking his testicles while masturbating his penis, sucking on her clitoris while penetrating her anus with a finger (preferably covered with a finger cot), sucking his penis while massaging the testicles, licking her perineum while fingering her vagina, and lets not forget good old fashioned penetration too.  Have fun experimenting with different combinations on your lover’s body.  Ask for feedback so that you know which combinations are most exciting for you both.

The TriGasm for Her

So, here’s the revolution, the ultimate orgasm—TriGasm … Read the rest of this article here:

~ by Dr. Ava on February 12, 2010.

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