Power Play

Do you know what the latest growing trend is in America’s lovemaking circles? If you open your eyes you’ll see hints of it in the body ornaments and body piercing fads all around you. Ever notice all those fashions featuring lots of leather and latex? What could all this mean?

It means that S & M (that’s right sadomasochism) and B & D (bondage and discipline) is what’s hot. You’ve got it! Students, secretaries, customer service reps, maybe even your relatives or your boss are really masters, mistresses, and/or slaves at heart. If you’re really into it, S & M can be one of the ‘safest’ forms of sex around.

So now you think you’re surrounded by degenerates and sickos? You think S & M belongs out there with homosexuality and fetishism and things that are just too weird and abnormal to accept? Well, think again – guys, when you make love to your girlfriend and you give her a little slap on the butt and she asks you to do it a little harder, that’s S & M. And, ladies, when you are at the point of no return, you’re climaxing, don’t you sometimes dig your fingernails into his back? I thought so, that’s S & M too. Do you enjoy that extra nipple stimulation, so rough that it has to hurt just a little to feel good?

Yes, S & M again. How about when he tells you all those nasty things he wants to do to you? And don’t you feel a little humiliated when he calls you a whore or a slut during sex? That’s B & D. When you blindfold your lover and tease him or her with sexual anticipation, it’s all a form of B & D. If you’ve ever been in any of these common situations, then you are into S & M or B & D without even knowing it. And, by adding some knowledge of the S & M arts to your lovemaking, you can get a reputation for being a little more sophisticated than that other person they’ve been dating.

You don’t have to spend a lot of money on paraphernalia. See those clothespins? Thought they were just for the laundry? Well, think again. How about clamping those on her nipples for extra stimulation, or on her clitoris, or put one on her labia and stretch them out of the way, the better to orally service her. Ladies, those scarves you use for your hair can also be used to tie up or be tied down with. Maybe even as a blindfold. That belt around his waist, do you think it’s only for holding his pants up?

A word of caution …

Read the rest of this article here at Loveology University.

~ by Dr. Ava on May 21, 2010.

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